Great Wife according to Islam

Nabi Muhammad SAW pernah bersabda: “Jika aku boleh memerintahkan seseorang untuk menyembah yang lain, aku akan memerintahkan istri untuk menyembah suaminya.” (HR. Bukhari dan Muslim)

Nabi Muhammad SAW pernah bersabda: “Seorang perempuan tidak patuh pada suaminya dan dia tidak akan mampu tanpa suaminya”. (HR. Bukhari dan Muslim)

Nabi Muhammad SAW pernah bersabda: “Seorang perempuan yang menegakkan sholat lima waktu, berpuasa di bulan Ramadan, dan mematuhi suaminya akan memasuki Surga melalui pintu mana saja dia suka”. (HR. Bukhari dan Muslim)

Nabi Muhammad SAW pernah bersabda: “Ketika seorang perempuan melalui malam dengan meninggalkan suami di tempat tidur, para malaikat akan mengutuknya sampai pagi hari.” (HR. Bukhari dan Muslim)

Nabi Muhammad SAW pernah bersabda: “Yang terbaik diantara para perempuan adalah yang mengasihi, mengasuh anak, supportif dan patuh, dan yang terburuk diantara perempuan adalah yang suka mengenakan perhiasan dan egois, dan masuk surganya tidak lebih mungkin dari seekor gagak putih”. (HR. Bukhari dan Muslim). Gagak berwarna putih, tidak seperti yang berwarna hitam, sekalipun ada tapi sangat jarang muncul di alam; sama jarangnya dengan kemungkinan perempuan sombong yang suka mengenakan perhiasan untuk bisa masuk surga.

Nabi Muhammad SAW pernah bersabda: “Pilihlah keturunanmu.” Artinya, orang tua perlu memerhatikan kriteria moral dalam memilih calon istri atau suami untuk anak laki-laki dan perempuannya, dengan memeriksa orang tua dari pasangan anak mereka nanti. Jika orang tuanya alim, tentunya anaknya juga demikian, dan demikian pula sebaliknya. (HR. Bukhari dan Muslim)

I just want every woman who read this know very well what they should do to be a great wife, listen to your husband first then the rest, cause i believe men has a better heart and passion than women, they do know how to get their right after fulfilling your right, i believe husbands love to seeing smiles on their wife's face.

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Allah is my strength

Life is never been easy as everybody will agree with me, it's always about struggling, surviving, breathing. Life is complicated in some point of view, and i believe every human has it's own problems. i do have few, fighting is all of we should do in facing every obstacles in life, which is good or bad , the result that all of we don't have any clue. But if you have been facing it, fighting it ,but it is not getting better instead it's getting worse and until some point where you have lost your breath, and if i'm facing that situation, i rather stop fighting and let it to Allah will, cause HE is the one i look up to, and keep your insanity in where it belong.

As I lay me down
Heaven hear me now
I'm lost without a cause
After giving it my all

Winter storms have come
And darkened my sun
After all that I've been through
Who on earth can I turn to?

I look to you,
I look to you
After all my strength is gone
In you I can be strong
I look to you,
I look to you
And when melodies are gone In you I hear a song
I look to you

Have to lose my breath
There's no fighting left
Sinking to rise no more
Searching for that open door

And every road that I've taken
Led to my regret
And I don't know if I'm go'n make it
Nothing to do but lift my head

My levees are broken
My walls are coming down on me
My rain is falling
Defeat is calling
I need you to set me free
Take me far away from the battle
I need you
Shine on me!

Please give me a new job now

Bismillah. Desperate and wanting like dying, please find me one that suit my personality and integrity, i just need a better job environment, which is stress free. Amin

I SWEAR TO GOD I HATE YOU

I got late once at a time, but you got early once at a time, what should you bother, you are not even give any good example, next i swear to you i will hunt you thousand of questions of why you as a boss get to the office late as always and almost everyday.

May you rest in peace

Song of the Month : One Republic - Come Home

Hello world
Hope you're listenin'
Forgive me if I'm young
For speaking out of turn
There's someone I've been missing
And I think that they could be
The better half of me
They're in their wrong place trying to make it right
But I'm tired of justifying
So I say to you

[Chorus]
Come home
Come home
Cause I've been waiting for you
For so long
For so long
And right now there's a war between the vanities
But all I see is you and me
The fight for you is all I've ever known
So come home
Oooh

[Verse 2]
I get lost in the beauty
Of everything I see
The world ain't half as bad
As they paint it to be
If all the sons
All the daughters
Stopped to take it in
Well hopefully the hate subsides and the love can begin
It might start now... Yeahh
Well maybe I'm just dreaming out loud
Until then

[Chorus]
Come home
Come home
Cause I've been waiting for you
For so long
For so long
And right now there's a war between the vanities
But all I see is you and me
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The fight for you is all I've ever known
Ever known
So come home
Oooh

[Interlude]
Everything I can't be
Is everything you should be
And that's why I need you here
Everything I can't be
Is everything you should be
And that's why I need you here
So hear this now

[Chorus]
Come home
Come home
Cause I've been waiting for you
For so long
For so long
And right now there's a war between the vanities
But all I see is you and me
The fight for you is all I've ever known
Ever known
So come home
Come home

I LOVE YOU

I surrender my life to you like i believe with all my heart that you love me

I don't know what love is since you've shown me once

You're the precious god has sent to my life ever

And i promise you to be by your side trough high and low

It makes my day when i see you smiling

like it's heaven to me

It makes me sad when i see you crying

like it's break my heart so bad

We have been trough a lot

Thick and thin, high and low, laugh and cry

I believe you knew me very well how much i love you

I believe you knew me that i will always be with you

We are just getting started honey

Hopefully we will get our dreams one by one

with you i believe

Nothing is Impossible

from your dearest husband
love always

Colleagues of Mine

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She is Brilliant, active, easy-going person

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Surya jayadi, hihihihihih, abang satu ini yg paling bijaksana, sabar dan oke dalam menghadapi apapun, cuma masalah ijab qabul aja ya kaksur lom siap, wkowkowkokwokwow

They all my friend at the office, but since my working day is as wasting most of my time everyday, and i could only have little spare time to spend without meeting them, so they all my friends in a moment, friends in any moment. Cheers guys, you all the Best :)

Baby Nasal Congestion

I bet parents who have a baby will have this matter, when your baby got fever, it's heart-breaking yet frustrating, cause you dealing with your baby hard to breath when they sleeping, oouucchhh, i had this situation twice or more.

Nasal congestion is the blockage of the nasal passages usually due to membranes lining the nose becoming swollen from inflamed blood vessels.^[1] It is also known as nasal blockage, nasal obstruction, blocked nose, stuffy nose, or stuffed up nose.

Nasal congestion has many causes and can range from a mild annoyance to a life-threatening condition. The newborn infant prefers to breathe through the nose (historically referred to as "obligate nasal breathers").^[2] Nasal congestion in an infant in the first few months of life can interfere with breastfeeding and cause life-threatening respiratory distress. Nasal congestion in older children and adolescents is often just an annoyance but can cause other difficulties.

Nasal congestion can interfere with the ears, hearing, and speech development. Significant congestion may interfere with sleep, cause snoring, and can be associated with sleep apnea. In children, nasal congestion from enlarged adenoids has caused chronic sleep apnea with insufficient oxygen levels and hypoxia, as well as right-sided heart failure. The problem usually resolves after surgery to remove the adenoids and tonsils.

Nasal congestion can also cause mild facial and head pain, and a degree of discomfort.

Treatment

The treatment of nasal congestion frequently depends on the underlying cause.

Both influenza and the common cold are self limiting conditions that improve with time; however, drugs such as acetaminophen (paracetamol) and ibuprofen may help with the discomfort.

A cause of nasal congestion may also be due to an allergic reaction caused by hay fever, so avoiding allergens is a common remedy if this becomes a confirmed diagnosis.Antihistamines and decongestants can provide significant symptom relief although they do not cure hay fever. Antihistamines may be given continuously during pollen season for optimum control of symptoms. Topical decongestants should only be used by patients for a maximum of 3 days in a row, because rebound congestion may occur in the form of rhinitis medicamentosa.

If an infant is unable to breathe because of a plugged nose, a nasal aspirator may be useful to remove the mucus. The mucus might be thick and sticky, making it difficult to expel from the nostril.

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Alternative medicine

The use of nasal irrigation may help reduce nasal congestion. It involves rinsing the nasal cavity with saline to clear out allergy-causing microscopic particles of dust and pollen that cling to the inner nasal membranes.

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Michael Schumacher

Michael Schumacher, my sport idol, he is brilliant, super fast, and the most successful formula 1 driver in the world ever, he is a seven-time world champion in 1994-1995 with Benetton, and in 2000-2004 with Ferrari, and he is indeed the greatest formula one driver bar none.

He came back motivated more than ever as he said to the press because like every body knows, that he never wanted to retired in 2006, but he had to, to let Felipe Massa secured his seat in Ferrari, he joined the Mercedes GP team, with Nico Rosberg as his driver partner in 2010, and this year is his second year of his comeback year.

At first year of his comeback, the result didn't satisfied him as like what he has expected, cause Mercedes in 2009 has been a World Champion team, so must be in 2010 the Mercedes GP car will be great too, but his predictions is wrong, the car went slower significantly cannot compete with the great Redbull Racing, The Ferraris and The Mclaren-Mercedes, then ok, he focused on Next year project : 2011.

2011 has gone half season so far, the result is not getting better than last year, and still lack of speed, and i don't know, Michael seems lost his touch, he is overshadowed by his junior Nico Rosberg, disappointed and frustrated, but he still showing an optimism to everyone.

For me Michael, statistic is still there, you still be the Greatest, and your record will stay in such a long time, and i still believe maybe not this year, but hopefully next year, the great result will come, you get your eighth World Champion.

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I Got This !

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Music has always be a good distraction for me in any condition of my moods, when i'm low i love hearing soothing songs, when i'm mad , rock or r n b music really suit this, when i'm happy , love song is what i choose right in a first place.

Then i found this song of Jennifer hudson's song, it's came in the right time, when i'm dying to get a better job with a better offer, cause i know i have to be patient to get the best one, and yes i got this inside me to bring me to success, so guys, are you ready to spin in?

"I Got This"

[Verse 1]
Packed all my clothes, shut the door,
Back on the road to success
Hopped in my two seater just me and the dream beating the pavement
Stick to the hurts and burst spitting words of encouragement, (baby)
And if you feel what I'm feeling
Then don't be scared to say it with me, say

[Chorus]
I got this, every single breath another step on my road
I got this, I'm from the south side trying to get to my goal
I got this, ain't no stopping me,
Come on follow me if you feel the need
I got this, better believe I got this, believe I got this

[Verse 2]
So many tried to break me
When I got up and knocked me down
Didn't keep me from moving
I flip the world upside down
They said the sky was the limit
I put my footprint all in it
Cause I've been there
I'm looking down at the moon
And if you feel like I do
Put your hands in the air

[Chorus]
I got this, every single breath another step on my road
I got this, I'm from the south side trying to get to my goal
I got this, ain't no stopping me,
Come on follow me if you feel the need
I got this, better believe I got this, believe I got this

[Bridge]
Gravity is mad at me cause when I fall I won't drop
Something in me won't let me stop until I reach the top
I keep going, I keep showing the whole world everyday I'm growing
Everything, everything, everything, everything, everything in me says I got this

[Chorus - Outro]
I got this, every single breath another step on my road
I got this, I'm from the south side trying to get to my goal
I got this, ain't no stopping me, come on follow me if you feel the need
I got this, better believe I got this, believe I got this
I got this, I got this, uh, I got this, I got this
I got this, I know you know I got this, you better know I got it, you got it, you know it
I got this, I got it, yeah... 

Safari Journey

This has been one of my favourite trip with my family, my "own family" indeed, xixiixix, since she was born (Aira), we don't have so much time to spend the day together, cause we have been very busy in work, yes, isn't that sound exhausting?

We went at home at 8 am, we are really in a rush that day, cause we don't know what are we facing with traffic ahead, cause since Cisarua is famously known as a jammed trafficity, hehhehe, but i have been exploring and read in some articles of saying that there is "one way road system", which is one way up from Jakarta to Cisarua at 9 am to 11 am and one way down at 03.30 pm till 05.00 pm, but this system won't allowed during national holiday.

Until we get to the cisarua we still don't know how far yet to get in to the "Taman Safari" cause since i'm myself has been never go there for, i don't  know, maybe in 4 years..!, so five of us (me, my wife, daughter, nephew, mother in law) started to worried if is this the real path to go, cause if we made a mistake, there is no way to turn back, This is one way system for god sake. we asking to the people beside the road, the answered that we are on the right track, and the taman safari is just near in the corner, then Eng ing eeennggggg, here it is ....hoooraaaaayyyyy

We go to the gate ticket, and the ticket person says, adults Rp. 85.000, children Rp. 70.000, car Rp. 15.000, ok so in total it will be Rp410.000, but then he said "for all Rp 340.000". I said : "ok here it is". Then from there we started to Safaring, hehehhe, but wait 

Me:  Mama"isn't that should be Rp410.000"?, so Aira is free of charge? hahahhha yippiii"

Mama : Yes aira is not included pa, so we saved Rp70.000, cheap enough though

Me: yes, didn't have i told you ma, this place is refreshing

Mama: stop it please !!!

Me: hehehhehehe

From 4 years ago till now, i can measure, Taman Safari is as clean as it was before, the animal is healthy and aggressive  we bought carrot at the entering gate, so OK come here Zebra, come here, camel, goat, whatever

Then we are heading to the danger zone animals, but i think these animals is gentle and nice actually, well i don't know, maybe they are sleepy since we got see them at 12 pm something, the lion is sleeping on top of a big rock, then there is a tiger walking around seems like confused of something, but i'm wondering why they put Ostrich in this Zone, cause i think this bird is cute and sexy, even Aira who scares because of the aggressiveness of this animal suddenly jumped out of her chair and said " Buurrrnnnnn (she means Burung) , hahahahahhaa, i love you Aira.

The facility of this zoo is absolutely great, clean and well-maintained, and there is also lots of cafes and restaurants for you to choose, since i'm tired enough, so i only took my family to the second stops, in a fast food restaurant, near the amusement park.

From there we thought it's over, but on our way trip to out, we seeing sing board of penguin, polar bear, night animals, wow, there is still more?, Great2 place, cause then again, since we all are tired, we chose to go home, and watched the clock it is already a "one way down system", so we decided to go home, and we arrive at home at 6pm something.

We definitely will go back there again, the air is fresh, the zoo is Fantabulous, and even i can see my daughter eyes shimmering seeing this animals so close to her, but next trip Bali.

Aira : i'm in a bad mood dad" (lol)

Papa : "Aira, sini, liat sini donk, yuk foto bentar, cantikkkk sini ayo poto".

Aira  : "Hmmmmppph Betul betuulll"

Papa : iya nanti di puterin, sini madep sini dl deh, cantiiikkk, ayoooo

Aira :  hhmmmmphhh, "nyameeet taoonnn" ( lagu selamat ulang tahun maksudnya suruh di puter), "betul  
          betuull" (Upin Ipin maksudnya) ayook yuk cepet"

Papa: "aaaah dede mah, suruh nengok dikit aja gak mau".

Papa: "hahahah dede dede i love you"
Aira : "hmmmpphh bodo"

Beyonce Latest Album : 4

Beyonce Knowles, a well-known succesfull artist from America has launched her latest album titled "4", this is her fourth studio album since Dangerously in Love (2003), B'Day (2006), I Am...Sasha Fierce (2008).

Her fourth studio album compile of 12 songs + added 6 songs in deluxe editions, and i love almost all of the songs. i admire how she produce her voice intensively powerful yet in tune, she uses mellissima technique like her idol "Mariah Carey", she shows her super-range of voice like in the song "love on Top", she jump one octave to another octave and still continue to get even higher until the end of the song, and in the song "I Care", she shows she has the ability to uses whistle register that really amazes me. Wow no wonder she is the artist of the decade of Billboard awards 2010.

Her first single coming out from this album is "Run the World (girls)", the high-tempo song that makes us wanted to dance and the video itself is Bounce Beyonce, love it, love it.