Good Luck to both of you guys

Having lost my two best colleagues at my office for just a month, my friend whom i shared laughs and shared everything in personal life and work life, and whatever kind of things to talked about. Now i lost them literary, but although we are still contacting each other, but it still fell not the same :D.

These two friend of mine like my four others who still staying is like my second family who will always support each other whatever, you named it, they all great. My first great pal is named Surya, he is funny crazy little guy, who often fill my work life in joy everyday, he knows what makes me laugh, he knows what makes me motivate, he knows almost everything i need, you go man, i wish you the best of luck in life and especially your career  i bet you can be successfull in both, cause i can feel it.

and the latest newest graduate employee is my friend Mustika, she's young lovely girl who has a nice smile that can contaminate us all with it, she is strong and smart, and she always been able to jump our mood from down to as high as it can, hahahha, she's a great person, energetic and nice, and it's a great lost to not having you here anymore.

To both of you, good luck  i hope Allah will always guide your path in life in your every steps, every minute, everytime, we will always staying here like forever, and you all need to know, this room is never feel the same again *sighs

I know that "people come and go but friendship will never end"

Karena Ukuran Kita Tak Sama

Sungguh tidak bijak menuntut seseorang untuk menjadi orang lain di zaman yang sama, apalagi menggugatnya agar tepat seperti tokoh lain pada masa yang berbeda. ‘Ali ibn Abi Thalib yang pernah diperlakukan begitu, punya jawaban yang telak dan lucu.

“Dulu di zaman khalifah Abu Bakar dan ‘Umar” kata lelaki kepada ‘Ali, “Keadaannya begitu tentram, damai dan penuh berkah. Mengapa di masa kekhalifahanmu, hai Amirul Mukminin, keadaanya begini kacau dan rusak?”

“Sebab,” kata ‘Ali sambil tersenyum, “Pada zaman Abu Bakar dan ‘Umar, rakyatnya seperti aku.

Adapun di zamanku ini, rakyatnya seperti kamu!”

*kutipan dr Salim A. Fillah ‘Karena Ukuran Kita Tak Sama’

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Nobody will knows

Nobody will ever understand how much i wanted it so bad, to be honest, i wish there is a time machine where i can go back to that day, and make a different decision in mylife, i really never thought that decision made a great impact in my life.

I feel really miserable right now, don't know where should i go, what should i do, to whom i can talk to, believe me, i'm on my lowest point in mylife right now.

I have been such a very ambitious person since i was born maybe, i wanted everything perfectly correct, but always into facing in a situation where i have to choose whether i just think of myself or somebody else, my heart soo blighted narrow now, and just life realizing just now, that in life you can't makes all succesfull side by side, cause you indeed need to sacrifice one thing you wanted to get something you wanted on the other side.

But now, i don't know, there is even no option for me to really get away with this feeling of failure, i just need to focus on my thing one by one now, i need to focus on that thing now for sure, i won't wasting my time anymore, not this year, i wish to you Allah please make my wish come true, i will do my best but i will let you the rest.

By the way,, these words even can't help me anymore, so i guess I'm have gone mad now :((

What is this life for?

People chasing dreams like they are live in mortality, like tomorrow is never ends, but what if you got what you want today, you accomplished something you really wanted the most, with your huge effort and absorb your lifetime energy, but tomorrow is never exist to you?

Life is a mystery, only Allah who knows what when how would it be, would it end, whatever, i have been busy this past years thinking only about my brighter future instead of be grateful for what i got. 

I need to change my point of view of this hectic world nowadays, cause i have thought of it, it is not that hard just to take it as simple as "smile".

Have mercy on me Allah, I love you :)

Our 4th Wedding Anniversary

Time flies so fast, it just like yesterday we've getting married but now, here we are in our 4th year of marriage, to be honest, there're lots of ups and downs, cries and laughs, joy and sadness, but we made it to hit the 4th anniversary, so i think i could say we're both survived in managing the pros and cons on our marriage.

From the first time i have been thinking about marriage, i always wanted it to be in "modern-style" couple, i  mean, we are bounded by this marriage thing, but we don't need or in a "must" zone of every time we should spend together (i couldn't even image what would it be), but we still have the responsibility in managing this relationship working well, and it does.

My wife is the one who helped me in describing what beauty is, i mean, i know what beauty is, but in living on one roof together with someone that i always wanted to hug is heaven for me, she even the one who helped me in understanding what love is, she hugs me when i'm cold, she kiss me when i'm in sorrow, she caress me when i'm in trouble, she knows and she has all i need.

Honey, it's the 4th year of our wedding, i hope we'll celebrate the next year, the next year the next forever, i know it's not easy and i believe there are thousand of problems we will face in the next future, but honey, being with you, i believe we both could manage any problems that this life has offered.

I LOVE YOU HONEY

My Prayers

Allah, please hear my prayers

If my heart is narrowed please make it wider

If my heart is tired please make it fresher

If i don't know where to go please guide me the way

If it's too hard for me please show me the answer

I'm thinking this world like never ending, i chase my dream without thinking my final path to your heaven, i'm neglected your guidance every since i'm getting busy of this sake of glory of world. You have given me too much, but i'm asking for more. If i failed, i'm crying without asking you why, instead i blame you for what i got. Please have mercy on me Allah.

Please guide me and my family and people in this world to a better life, guide us to find the meaning of life, guide us to be your citizen in your heaven, guide us to be a better moslem.

I don't ask you for anything except your guidance for us to find the meaning of life, i promise i'll guide myself and my family to go to your heaven.

Amin.

Solusi Mengatasi Kemacetan Di Jakarta ala Ari

Jakarta, sudah paham semua dan bahkan maklum sama trafficnya yang parah, macet sana sini, sampe jalan arteri bahkan jalanan menuju komplek perumahan saja macet, saking banyaknya kendaraan di jalanan Jakarta ini, dan macetnya sampai ke suburb Jakarta, Bekasi, Depok, Tangerang, Bogor.

Kemarin, Pemerintah disibukkan dengan rencana menaikkan harga BBM subsidi Premium, tapi di tentang masyarakan Indonesia, sehingga tidak jadi menaikkan harga BBM dan tetap mensubsidi BBM Premium yang padahal memang sudah salah sasaran, mobil2 mewah tanpa malunya, mengisi bahan bakar dengan BBM subsidi ini, padahal mobilnya harganya setengah miliar bahkan sampai lebih dari satu milliar, sungguh terlalu :( .

Tapi saya pribadi pun tidak setuju dengan rencana pemerintah menaikkan harga BBM ini, karena berdampak pada masyarakat kurang mampu, karena dampaknya sampai ke meningkatnya harga sembako, ongkos transportasi umum yang juga pastinya meningkat, dan barang2 kebutuhan pokok lainnya sudah pasti semua naik, padahal pendapatan masyarakat tidak akan mengalami kenaikkan signifikan, padahal mereka jangankan punya kendaraan roda empat yang banyak mengkonsumsi bahan bakar subsidi ini, kendaraan roda dua juga mereka pakai bergantian mungkin dengan anggota keluarga mereka.

NTMC sudah melakukan berbagai upaya, dengan membuat jalur pengalihan traffic di perempatan Kuningan yang memang sumber kemacetan Jakarta, pengadaan Busway untuk memfasilitasi masyarakat untuk beralih ke transportasi publik, dan bahkan ada rencana ERP (electronic Road Pricing) yang sayangnya tidak jadi terealisasi dan hanya terbatas studi, dan juga sebelumnya ada rencana pembatasan kendaraan dengan nomer plat ganjil genap, dan ada juga rencana pembatasan dengan warna kendaraan roda empat, lucu juga, kalo mobil saya warnanya dua, gelap sama putih bagaimana tuh, tetep bisa kepake tiap hari ya :), apalagi kalo ada yang punya mobil dua satu hitam satu putih, tetep aja bisa di pakai bergantian ya.

Saya mempunyai beberapa solusi yang saya fikir akan sangat signifikan dalam mengurangi kesemrawutan traffic di Jakarta khususnya ini, dan saya fikir bisa di realisasikan di Jakarta khususnya :

1. Menaikkan tarif parkir kendaraan khusus kendaraan roda empat, yang biasanya perjam Rp 2.500, menjadi Rp. 10.000, bayangin untuk mereka yang manja, menggunakan kendaraan pribadi dari berangkat kantor dan begitu sampai kantor hanya di parkir di kantor dari jam 9 pagi sampai jam 5 sore, sekitar 8 jam, ditotal jika perjamnya Rp.10.000, mereka harus membayar Rp.80.000 per hari, saya yakin yang membawa kendaraannya hanya untuk di parkir dikantor akan berpikir untuk segera beralih ke transportasi publik, uang hasil parkirnya khan bisa digunakan juga untuk subsidi transportasi publik agar lebih baik.

2. Membentuk kawasan 5 in 1, saya pikir 3 in 1 sudah tidak efektif lagi digunakan di Jakarta, karena banyaknya praktik Joki 3 in 1 di sepanjang jalanan Jakarta menuju kawasan 3 in 1 ini, kalo 5 in 1, pasti mikir deh mereka pengguna kendaraan roda empat untuk melalui kawasan ini dalam waktu dan jam yang sudah di tentukan, sehingga para pengguna transportasi publik tidak terkena imbas macet karena banyaknya kendaraan pribadi roda empat yang melintas di kawasan2 ini, yang pake mobil sedan mewah, umpel2an ampe pangku2an berlima di mobil, lucu juga, tp tetep lebih nyaman khan ketimbang naik mobil gak AC, dempet2an berdiri, macet pula gara2 kalian ini, rasakan *sadis

3. Setelah dua hal solusi diatas di implemetasikan , saya yakin banyak masyarakat Jakarta yang akan beralih kalo tidak ke transportasi publik mereka akan beralih membeli sepeda motor sehingga Jakarta pasti akan menjadi kota "semilyar motor", jadi solusi selanjutnya, memberikan persyaratan khusus untuk masyarakat Jakarta dalam membeli sepeda motor yang notabene sangat mudah untuk kita membeli sepeda motor, dengan uang 1juta saja dan fotokopi Ktp saja sudah dapat membawa pulang satu sepeda motor, yaitu dengan memberikan persyaratan- persyaratan khusus, mengenai tujuan ingin membeli sepeda motor, kendaraan apa saja yang sudah dimiliki dirumah (ini disurvey kerumah), dan seperlu apakah sehingga harus membeli sepeda motor. Hak nya tidak terganggu buat masyarakat ingin memiliki kendaraan, hak mereka, cuma dengan melakukan survey ini khan buat mereka yang sudah memiliki lebih dari 2 sepeda motor, dan mungkin juga memiliki kendaraan roda empat akan instrospeksi diri sendiri, apakah sebegini perlunya mereka sehingga harus membeli kendaraan lain untuk mereka hanya berangkat kerja, kalo tetep gak mau naik transportasi publik, naik SEPEDAAAAA :) *judes

4. Tugas pemerintah selanjutnya adalah meningkatkan fasilitas transportasi publik, bis antar kota di perbarui, subsidi BBM yang pasti akan turun bisa di alihkan ke pengadaan fasilitas publik transportasi ini, saya yakin semakin baiknya fasilitas transportasi publik, masyarakat tidak akan mikir dua kali untuk segera beralih ke pilihan moda transportasi publik yang sangat  baik di sediakan oleh pemerintah.

Ayo pemerintah, *moga2 ada yang baca :), dicoba solusi saya, salam Bebas Macet .